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), but it's especially difficult in rural areas with small queer populations.Dating apps can be a blessing to a single, rural lesbian.
(Cyber sex can feel like a consolation prize, I realize, but it's a pretty good one.) Private Facebook groups (where moderators can screen for homophobes, trolls, and menz) are a great place to connect with other lesbians.
I thought there would be time for me once she was older.
But his election made my own lack of community feel so painful that I couldn't stay locked away any longer.
I had a kid to raise in a small conservative town and I've always figured she was my top priority.
For years now I've focused on being the calmest, safest space I could for my child and I put her needs ahead of my own.